Rejection happens to EVERYONE. So, why do some of us seem to take the hit harder than others?
Everything was going so well until that new potential client ghosted you after the intro call where you two really connected… You were flying high right before, the business was going well and money flowing in, but all you can focus on now is THE SILENCE.
You have no idea why “Yes, I’m in!” turned into the sound of crickets. ... Your mood drops, self-doubt kicks in and you go into your shell, trying to self-medicate with ice-cream.
You decide you don't feel like posting or going live today (since it's a "bad" day anyways!) and it happens again the next day... and then the day after…
Next thing you know, you fall out of schedule, are judging yourself and hearing all the old "IT'S NOT WORKING" voices creeping up on you. Thinking how in the world you can make your business work long-term, IF "IT'S ALWAYS GOING TO BE THIS HARD".
Welcome to the journey of entrepreneurship they say! When in fact... THESE EMOTIONAL UPS AND DOWNS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING AN ENTREPRENEUR.
But everything with how we MANAGE REJECTION. Rejection and bad days happen to EVERYONE. So, why do some of us seem to take the hit harder than others?
>>> Because it brings up some similar wound from an earlier time in our life, that we might consciously remember or not at all.
Like the subconscious and body/nervous system memories from infancy, prenatal development, or other traumatic experiences that we might not even think of as "trauma" now.
BUT THEY CREATED A REJECTION WOUND --- ONE OF THE DEEPEST WOUNDS and A SURVIVAL FEAR UNDERNEATH IT, that most of us carry unconsciously in this "human condition".
And it gets retriggered on the level of our BODY and MIND over and over again. Unless effectively released.
That's why, to have a successful FULFILLING business that doesn't feel like torture, the processing of this wound (and all the roller coaster type of emotional and mental reactions that you experience as a result) has to address not ONLY your analytical mind, or even your subconscious,
BUT YOUR BODY, ITS HABITUAL NEUROLOGICAL AND NEUROCHEMICAL PATTERNING AND THE MEMORY OF THE ORIGINAL REJECTION EXPERIENCE THAT IT STORED.
The biological memory that has been replayed on repeat for your entire life.
This neurologist and neurochemical memory is highly ADDICTIVE... As our emotional and mental reactions to triggers and trauma run on the well-rehearsed neuropathways, reinforced by the chemical state they create (emotions = chemicals).
They begin to have “a mind of their own”.
BUT THIS "MIND" IS OUTSIDE OF OUR CONSCIOUS CONTROL AND WILL POWER, BECAUSE IT IS RUN BY OUR AUTONOMIC NERVOUS SYSTEM.
We can't just solve it by "thinking positively" and "differently".
Unless… the emotional and body memory charge behind them is effectively released, so your nervous system and therefore emotions, mind and its negative voices (who do they belong to, by the way???) can be reset as a result.
SO THE MIND (AND ALL OUR ACTIONS!) CAN FOLLOW THE BODY AND OUR INNER STATE.
Imagine how you would feel in your business when you are no longer reacting to and getting stopped by rejection?
When hearing “no” no longer takes you out for days and you have effective body memory release techniques to use for the rest of your life.
When you take actions and follow through on your ideas consistently.
When you feel at peace and can confidently advertise your work and sell more, even if others judge it?
When you get to live true to your purpose and your dreams.
This is exactly what I help my clients achieve in my program for heart-driven entrepreneurial women where I combine my innovative body memory release methodology, the power of hypnosis and coaching,
to help release the root causes behind common business fears, blocks, sabotage and emotional triggers, so you can step into unwavering confidence and visibility, in order to market/sell your work and attract clients with much more ease.
To bring your talents and Soul purpose out into the world more powerfully and profitably.